Candies for Loot bags
>> Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Nice Try Kuya
>> Tuesday, March 17, 2009
A mother and wife's grief
Two months ago I considered myself as one of those blessed and happiest people on earth. Why not? I married a guy who was an epitome of kindness. A guy who worshipped even the footsteps I made. More importantly, our union blessed us with a daughter who not only became the main source of our happiness….more so; she was the center of our lives.
We're simple folks who led a simple life. We felt the happiest even about mundane things and inconsequential ones that most people would only take for granted. Our joy mostly revolved on simple pleasures like a sudden trip to Jollibee or a late night marauding of the fridge for any leftovers. A perfect family with simple delights, dreams and aspirations………until that fateful night on December 5, 2008.The day my husband and daughter were taken away from me in a very violent way. That Friday night on December 5, 2008 marked the beginning of all the terror, anguish and misery in my life.
In keeping with my ritual or "panata" on every first Friday of every month, I went to Quiapo Church on the above mentioned date to pay homage and respect to the Almighty One. My husband and daughter were supposed to pick me up in Pasay City after which we planned on giving our daughter a treat to Jollibee. While riding the jeep, I tried to call my husband to tell him that I was on my way to our meeting place. But despite all the calls I made, my husband remained silent. A very unusual occurrence inasmuch as he seldom missed my calls. Despite my trepidation and wonder, I took the next jeep going home and prayed that everything was alright. I even promised to myself that I would forgive my husband for not answering my calls and for forgetting to pick me up.
I felt relieved when near our place my phone rung. Such relief was somehow only momentary….in fact the phone call I got was the bearer of the worst news in my entire life. My helper called, only to tell me that my husband and daughter were shot to death by "men in uniform". The same men who were sworned to protect innocent people from bad guys brutally slew the two most important persons in my life. They were the same men whose sacred duty was to preserve the lives of the public against all harm and danger. Yet…….they were the same men who murdered my love ones in the most cruel, savage and inhuman way.
My husband's face was unrecognizable because he was shot in the head at close range while he was kneeling with his head bowed down.. My daughter's young body was riddled with bullets, one hit her head, blowing her brains out.., all from too powerful guns and ammunitions fired by the "men in uniform" on two innocent and defenseless persons.
The "men in uniform" were allegedly on a mission to take some gang of robbers victimizing people at large. The police shot the crosswind van my husband and daughter were riding Based on some witnesses' narration, the police sprayed bullets into the van despite the lack of provocation or shots coming from the van. In his last effort to save their lives, my husband grabbed my bloodied daughter and shielded her with his body while trying to run away from the police and tried to get cover from a parked jeepney My husband and daughter were so defenseless. How can you mistake a child for a robber? How can you shot at someone who was already kneeling with head bowed, an indication of helplessness.
My husband and daughter are gone…….forever. The pain I feel for their lost is too much too bear. And the only thing that motivates me to go on with life is the mission to seek justice for their senseless killing. If the people who are responsible for their death will be punished, if I could bring them the justice they so richly deserve, my pain would be alleviated. The misery I will live by will be lessened. My husband and daughter will be vindicated and I will learn to live the remaining years of my life in peace.
Thus: I'm asking and begging everyone who will come across this letter/e-mail to forward the same to all your relatives, friends, and acquaintances. Help me bring my cause to the eyes of the people capable of steering the wheel of justice to the right direction. Help me make the loudest cry worthy of attention by those people in-charge in rendering justice to those who deserve it.
Strength comes in numbers; it is where the impossible becomes possible. It is also where the unattainable becomes achievable.
My heartfelt gratitude for everyone who will take a moment in their too busy lives and forward this letter/e-mail to everyone they know. May God always protect you and your love ones from all harm.
Lilian de Vera
New Hobby
>> Sunday, March 15, 2009
Award from Peach
>> Friday, March 13, 2009
Got this award from Peach, thanks sis for this! Please do visit her page and you'll find some interesting post.
Here are the award rules:
Name 7 things that you love and then pass the award on to 7 other kreativ bloggers.
1. I love my family the most.
2. I love my friends like family.
3. I love to laugh, I do that every day
4. I love chocolates so much.
5. I love beer, though I try to reduce my consumption due to health reason.
6. I love baking for my friends and family but now due to economic crisis Kathy and I decided to accept orders.
7. I love to eat.
And now passing this on to 7 more KREATIV BLOGGER:
Kathy, Memae, Amy, Rose, Mommy Dharlz, Bridgette and Mye
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Safety First
Latest from KP Creations
Jacko's concert
>> Thursday, March 12, 2009
FM
I keep on blaming my self
I should have eaten my pride
how can i convince you
its just a matter of time
many times i've hurt you
with my foolish ways oh girl
now i know i have to pay the price
is there a way for u to turn around,
turn around and come back baby
ohh baby cant u see
its been cold summer nights since we drifted apart
cold summer nights since you walked out that door
cold summer nights here on my own
coz i miss you baby, i need you here
cold summer nights girl, i really miss you
you rocked my world
i wanna touch you and kiss you
its my fault
i never called you at home
i'm on the phone, wishing you could call
i'm all alone
is there a way for you to turn around and
come back to me
i hope you understand
that i'm your man and together we can
kiss and make up
'coz you know i cant stand
Business...business...business
Office Visitors
For fast and furious
>> Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Sisterhood Award
>> Friday, March 6, 2009
And now I get to pass it on!
1. Put the logo on your blog or post.
2. Nominate at least 10 blogs which show great Attitude and/or Gratitude!
3. Be sure to link to your nominees within your post.
4. Let them know that they have received this award by commenting on their blog.
5. Share the love and link to this post and to the person from whom you received your award.
I'm giving this award to the following as a sign of gratitude and eternal friendship :)
2. Memae for everything and everythin in between. I miss you bakla!
3. George for the secrets and more secrets to keep.
4. Mrs. Cotrill (hope you are having a nice vacation in Bicol!) for being a my good online friend.
5. Amiable Amy for always visiting me, I owe you sister :)
6. Mye (Miss visiting you sis!)
7. Mommy Dharlz for being my very much willing recipient for my tags and awards :). I pray that everything would be okay soon.
8. Peach
9. Leonila
10. Mommy Claire Read more...
Protected
Am I stressed?
Dine in or outside dining?
>> Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Handy Help
>> Sunday, March 1, 2009
Songs and me
Without Me by Eminen- I heard this from Memae. Sometimes I feel that I failed the exams because I took more time to memorize the lyrics of this song rather than the theories and formulas.
It might be you by Stephen Bishop and Maybe by Neocolours- Highschool days and heartaches.
Overjoyed- my song for a college friend.
Numb by Linkin Park-me and my mom's argument song (love you ma)
Kiss Me- favorite videoke song score ranges from 97-100 only. Now winning song for us but in Japanese version.
How to stay young
1. Throw out nonessential numbers.
This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay "them."
2. Keep only cheerful friends.
The grouches pull you down.
3. Keep learning.
Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. "An idle mind is the devil's workshop." And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.
4. Enjoy the simple things.
5. Laugh
often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath. ( I always do this!)
6. The tears happen.
Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.
7. Surround yourself with what you love
Whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.
8. Cherish your health
If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.
9. Don't take guilt trips.
Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.
10. Tell the people you love that you love them at every opportunity.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
LET US ALL ENJOY LIFE AND STAY YOUNG!